The Japanese word japor means “to fall.” This means that when you fall, you are no longer aware of your own actions, but rather are caught up by a sudden and complete shock. It is a strong sign that something is wrong, so don’t worry, just fix it.
Japor, like most Japanese words, has a double meaning. Literally, it means to fall, but in this case it is a reminder that you are not merely in the process of falling. The japor is an active and intentional way of saying that you are falling and that you are going to fall no matter what you do. As a result, you should take the time to learn to recognize your own fall, and to learn to fall back to the ground as soon as possible.
I’ve seen this happen more than once. Someone who has strong feelings about a situation can simply turn around and walk away, but then the first instinct of most people is to just get in front of the person they’re upset with and tell them how they feel. But that can quickly backfire. If you aren’t strong enough to say it out loud, it’s difficult to say it to someone you don’t know. So it’s best to just not get involved in any conflict.
Just like with almost everything in life, you can either have it your way or you can fall back to your feet. You can always try to change someone else, but its easier to just stop trying and just get on with it.
We all have trouble with conflict, its inevitable. When a conflict is left as a result of conflict, or when a conflict leads to conflict, it can make you feel that you are no longer as much in control as you need to be. Like a bad relationship, if you arent able to just walk away from conflict, you are going to end up on the receiving end of it sooner or later.
The problem is when you are unable to walk away from conflict, you can end up spending more time than you want to in this relationship with your spouse. You may feel that you no longer have enough time to spend together and you need to just get on with it.
Japor can be pretty frustrating. If your spouse/partner is constantly complaining and holding you back, you tend to feel like this relationship is always going to end up like that. On the other hand, if you can just walk away, feel accomplished, and get on with your life, your spouse/partner will probably thank you for it.
It’s actually a bit rarer for couples to have one that actually does walk away, but the best examples of this approach are couples who are both equally “bad” at time-looping. For instance, I’m a huge fan of the “japor” relationship.
Japor has a lot of common traits with the japanese marriage genre. If the relationship ends with one spouse being extremely submissive, the other spouse will be happy to leave in order to feel in control. However, if one party is as aggressive as the other, the other will fight to control the situation. There are also many examples of this approach in the japanese anime “kara no koe.
The japanese anime “kara no koe” is actually a very popular series among people who are really into time-looping. It’s a relationship where one partner is usually one-sided, so they can be much more dominant. It’s very similar to the japanese japanese anime “japanese love”, where one partner can be very submissive and the other party will fight to maintain their relationship.
